How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk
The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind
by:
John Van Epp
Summary:
The book provides a guide to understanding key aspects of a partner's personality and compatibility before committing to a deeper relationship, using a five-step program to evaluate a potential partner's past behavior, present actions, and future potential. It offers practical advice and strategies to help readers make informed decisions about their romantic relationships, aiming to prevent them from getting involved with unsuitable or harmful partners.
Key points:
1. Relationship Attachment Model (RAM): This model outlines five relationship dynamics: know, trust, rely, commit, and touch. They should progress evenly to avoid unhealthy attachments.
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