Summary:
The book explores the differences in communication styles, conversational patterns, and expectations between men and women, often leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. It delves into the ways gender influences language and interaction, offering insights into improving cross-gender communication.
Key points:
1. Genderlect Styles: Tannen's "genderlect" concept highlights distinct male and female communication styles, rooted in societal norms. Men are direct and assertive, while women are cooperative and relationship-focused.
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