Summary:
The memoir recounts the author's experiences grappling with the loss of her spouse, the death of her newborn child, and the dissolution of her perceived stable life. It explores themes of resilience, identity, and the illusion of control, as she confronts the reality that life's certainties are not guaranteed.
Key points:
1. Illusion of Control: Levy's memoir challenges the idea of control over life and destiny, showing it's often an illusion.
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