Summary:
The book explores the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire, and offers insight into maintaining passion within long-term relationships. It delves into the psychological and cultural complexities that can lead to a decline in eroticism over time, and provides strategies for rekindling intimacy and excitement.
Key points:
1. Domesticity vs Eroticism Paradox: Perel discusses how long-term relationship comfort can reduce erotic desire due to predictability.
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