Summary:
The book explores the complexities of infidelity, examining why people cheat and how couples can navigate the aftermath of betrayal. It challenges traditional notions of marriage and fidelity, offering insights into the transformative potential of affairs and their impact on relationships.
Key points:
1. Infidelity's Complexity: Perel views infidelity as a complex issue, not just betrayal. It can indicate relationship problems, self-searching, or rebellion against monotony. Understanding these reasons can help couples recover.
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