Summaries of books about Relationship Psychology:
Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them
When Loving Hurts And You Don't Know Why
Susan Forward|Joan Torres
The book delves into the destructive patterns of relationships where men emotionally abuse or control women, and it explores the psychological reasons why some women remain in such toxic dynamics. It offers insights into the cycle of abuse, the impact on victims, and provides strategies for recognizing, confronting, and breaking free from unhealthy relationships.
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A General Theory of Love
Thomas Lewis|Fari Amini|Richard Lannon
The book explores the complex nature of human emotions and relationships through the lens of neuroscience, arguing that love is essential for emotional and psychological well-being. It delves into how early relationships shape the brain's development and influence patterns of behavior and interpersonal connections throughout life.
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Crazy Love
Leslie Morgan Steiner
The memoir recounts a woman's journey through a violent, tumultuous marriage to a man who initially seemed perfect but later revealed his deeply abusive nature. It explores the psychological dynamics of abuse and the difficult path to escaping a dangerous relationship.
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Boys & Sex
Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity
Peggy Orenstein
The book delves into the intimate lives, thoughts, and experiences of young men as they navigate sexual relationships, grappling with issues like consent, pornography, and societal expectations of masculinity. It provides a candid exploration of how these young men understand and express their sexuality in the context of modern cultural pressures and changing gender dynamics.
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Avoidant
How to Love a Dismissive Partner
Jeb Kinnison
The book delves into the characteristics of avoidant partners, exploring their emotional detachment and fear of intimacy. It offers guidance on how to connect with a dismissive partner or make the decision to end the relationship and move on.
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Attachment Theory in Practice
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Individuals, Couples, and Families
Susan M. Johnson
The book provides a comprehensive guide to applying attachment theory within the context of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), offering clinical techniques and case examples for therapists working with individuals, couples, and families. It emphasizes the importance of emotional bonding and secure attachment as key elements in therapeutic interventions to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.
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The Evolution of Desire
Strategies of Human Mating
David M. Buss
The book explores human mating behavior from an evolutionary psychology perspective, analyzing the underlying sexual strategies and preferences that have evolved over time. It discusses how factors such as mate selection, jealousy, and infidelity are influenced by genetic imperatives and the drive for reproductive success.
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We
Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love
Robert A. Johnson
The book explores the psychological dynamics of romantic love through the lens of Jungian analysis, examining how myths and unconscious expectations shape our relationships. It delves into the origins of romantic ideals, the projection of inner archetypes onto partners, and pathways to more conscious, fulfilling connections.
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The Apology
V (formerly Eve Ensler)
The book is a powerful exploration of abuse and accountability, written as a letter from the author's deceased father, who never apologized for the sexual and physical abuse he inflicted upon her. It imagines the apology she never received, delving into the impact of his actions and the possibility of healing from such trauma.
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The Covert Narcissist
Recognizing the Most Dangerous Subtle Form of Narcissism and Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships
Dr.Theresa J. Covert
The book delves into the traits and behaviors of individuals with covert narcissistic tendencies, providing insights into their manipulative tactics and the impact on their victims. It offers strategies for recognizing such personalities and guidance on healing from the emotional damage caused by these toxic relationships.
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