Summaries of books about Relationship Psychology:
The Art of Loving
Erich Fromm
The book explores the nature of love in its various forms—romantic, brotherly, erotic, self-love, and love of God—and argues that love is an art that requires knowledge and effort. It delves into the theory of love as an interpersonal creative capacity rather than just an emotion, emphasizing the importance of developing the capacity for love in order to achieve a fulfilling life.
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Polysecure
Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
Jessica Fern
The book explores the intersection of attachment theory and consensual nonmonogamy, offering insights on how individuals can form secure attachments while engaging in polyamorous relationships. It addresses the challenges of navigating complex emotions and trauma in non-traditional relationship structures, providing strategies for building and maintaining healthy, secure connections with multiple partners.
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Prepare to be tortured
- the price you will pay for dating a narcissist
A B Jamieson
The book offers insights into the manipulative and damaging behaviors of narcissists in romantic relationships, providing readers with an understanding of the psychological toll involved. It serves as a cautionary guide, detailing the emotional abuse and control tactics a partner might face when dating someone with narcissistic tendencies.
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30 Covert Emotional Manipulation Tactics
How Manipulators Take Control In Personal Relationships
Adelyn Birch
The book provides an overview of various manipulative techniques that individuals may use in personal relationships to gain power and control over others. It offers readers insights into recognizing these tactics, understanding the psychology behind them, and strategies for responding to and protecting oneself from such manipulation.
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Lust & Wonder
A Memoir
Augusten Burroughs
In this memoir, the author chronicles his personal journey through relationships, exploring the complexities of love and desire. He reflects on his past experiences with humor and honesty, delving into his struggles with addiction and his path to finding true connection.
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The Will to Change
Men, Masculinity, and Love
bell hooks
The book examines the role of patriarchy in shaping male identity and the negative impact it has on men's ability to express emotions and form healthy relationships. It advocates for a redefinition of masculinity that embraces vulnerability and emotional literacy as a pathway to healing and constructing more loving, equitable partnerships.
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The Bridge Ladies
A Memoir
Betsy Lerner
The memoir explores the author's relationship with her mother through the lens of a weekly bridge game, attended by a group of elderly women. It delves into the complexities of mother-daughter bonds, the history of the women's lives, and the lessons learned from a generation gap bridged by cards.
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Wired for Love
How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
Stan Tatkin
The book explores the concept of attachment theory in romantic relationships, providing insights into how partners can understand each other's brain functioning and attachment styles to foster a secure and harmonious bond. It offers practical advice and strategies for managing conflict, enhancing intimacy, and creating a lasting, loving partnership by recognizing and responding to each other's emotional needs.
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The Negative Trait Thesaurus
A Writer's Guide to Character Flaws
Angela Ackerman|Becca Puglisi
The book provides an extensive list of character flaws, detailing their nature, possible causes, and how they might affect individuals. It also offers advice on how to use these flaws to develop complex, realistic characters and drive conflict within a story.
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Insecure in Love
How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
Leslie Becker-Phelps
The book provides an exploration of the anxious attachment style, detailing how it can lead to feelings of jealousy, neediness, and chronic worry in relationships. It offers practical strategies and exercises to help individuals understand their attachment patterns and develop healthier, more secure ways of connecting with partners.
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